An open letter to all members - a real member / admin commentary.
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Couldn't agree more! It's great to read a bit of reality occasionally and know that there's those amongst us who will call things as they are and not just as some would like them to be! In closing I will hasten to add that Pam & I find it rather annoying when some twit emails us seeking to have an affair with my wife and ends up getting nasty when they're told we have no interest! It's nice however to be able to state that these idiots are few and far between! We also would like to state that we do respond to comments/queries whenas and whereas appropriate!
I received a message from a user that created the account THIS MORNING, subject titled 'WANNA' - and then just the word 'MEET' as the message and if that doesn't scream fake profile then idk what does.
I totally agree and urge EVERYONE to get verified to avoid unnecessary complications or have a terrible experience on here. There's a PLETHORA of P2Bz (Pretend 2 Be'z...yeah. I created that
) on this site. That's why I strayed away for some months. It's ALWAYS better meeting a female offline and in person. That way you can engage in anything with them a lot better cause you have an actual visual. But while sexploring on this BlacktoWhite site, you'll be safer engaging and interacting with REAL,GOLD verified members. You can avoid the P2Bz (Pretend 2 Be'z), Picture thieves and Trollers. Frankly, I feel like all those individuals of those violations should have their IP ADDRESS BLOCKED FROM THIS SITE!100%!!! That way they'll be so frustrated and won't attempt to hinder and make someones sexperience on here an unpleasant one. That's all I have. Thanks for listening.
Hmm...indeed this is true. But good thing to know the site updates itself and moderators are up to speed and not playing favoritism. Fairplay is the safest way to play that way everyone is on the EXACT same page. Weeding out the P2Bz, Trollers and Bullshitters.
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there are no ways to reduce and eliminate fake profiles. in the internet world,there are many fake than real.just check facebook for instance,there are lot of fake profiles and double profiles,there is nothing you can do about it,it infact helps the company reputation for advertisers
you can not stop anyone from registering in a site because it reduces the revenue of the site and the visibility of the site on search engines.
what you can do to help the site,is to report fraudulent, and suspicious activities,hate and fake profile,hate speech.
an updated lay down rules and regulation for all members to follow as the site grows will help b2w.
you can not stop anyone from registering in a site because it reduces the revenue of the site and the visibility of the site on search engines.
what you can do to help the site,is to report fraudulent, and suspicious activities,hate and fake profile,hate speech.
an updated lay down rules and regulation for all members to follow as the site grows will help b2w.
We can relate to this, as it also goes both ways, sadly. We have tried to setup calls with my wife and a guy that she's clicking with on Kik, only to find that the guy either bails on the call, or calls us with some weird voice that you can't understand and sounds strange (not like a real person). Very frustrating when you start to suspect that who you have been chatting with is a fake. And often times, these are verified profiles on the site.
Report their message as being a catfish/spammer/*******.
If this happens, report the profile!
NotThisAgain
Male
Fakes on a website? Thats impossible
Houmilf4bbc
Couple
We are fairly new to this site and haven't used it as a means for actual hookups. When looking for hookups, swinger sites and even CL has worked perfectly. Part of our verification step is always doing a video chat before we meet on KIK, not only does it makes us more familiar with who we are meeting but clearly verifies them as real. KIK seems to be widely used now and much better than giving someone your real phone number in case things just don't work out. This is just what works for us, I'm sure others have different means that work as well. We mainly use this site for a broad view on the whole lifestyle, it's an amazing resource.
Funcouple_99
Couple
Lots of great responses here but we’ve had lots of phone conversations etc... all leading up to the day and time of meeting up only to have a no call/no show. BBCslutlover has been the only person to follow through and meet with us and was completely cool. Wish more could be like him and have genuine respect and follow through. Lots of people demanding pics but don’t realize how detrimental those pics can be to people down the road.
This is one of the best interracial sites if not the best one but it will be so perfect if the management think of installing a software that disable downloading or saving photos and videos so that we, members can feel real safe here knowing no one will download our vide clips and save our photos and spread them all over the internet. I think it is not costly to install such a system as many sites use it now
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Deleted125623
Guest
There is no such thing as being able to just block downloading pictures or video's I'm afraid. Hubby uses software that bypasses all that when required for his work. Its a nice idea, but in reality it doesn't work. Also the 'other sites still suffer from video's and pictures being 'used' by others after they are downloaded- recorded pictures etc.
I definitely agree. Seeing as I'm one of many victims suffering from it. Well not any longer. Since I've been reporting it..even then still..there are websites who do have this software installed to where you can't download any of the material on that site. And even if it shows in the notification bar, on your device, that it is, the content won't be available for viewing of ANY kind. We should encourage the staff.
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Deleted125623
Guest
Then you move into dangerous grounds. Don't get me wrong we have suffered from exactly that sort of thing ourselves. But. And its a huge but. Once you go off B2W you are no longer covered. Anything you use against a person taken in the public domain or recorded and used can get you into huge trouble. Its not really worth it. I know its happened to us and they were mostly ' verified and so called genuine people. Which is why it
As I mentioned there is no such thing. Don't get me wrong. There are software companies who make the claim its100% proof. When the fact is NOTHING is. There are too many work arounds.
Most of those who use deceiptive means to promote themselves using illegaly gained material can use software that by passes all the checks and locks to stop content being downloaded. I'll give you an example. Hubby uses information retrevial software for work.. This software strips all video's, pictures, information, ie written word, scripts, Java blocks. everything. Whether it is a science periodical, a web site, or a data base. And no. Its not data mining.
To really stop these infractions B2W are going to have to invest in software costing thousands. Also investing in software that minimises the risks to real members you are going to need military/government level software with 24 hour monitoring by some one to even keep a small amount of members under scrutiny.
Sure use somekind of software, but be under no illusions that your picture or what ever is NEVER truely safe.
A simple yet effect trick that members can use is adding a water mark where it is clearly visable. For those who don;t there are the simple tricks of adding in the photograph or picture a few lines of code which do not interefer with the material but can be used to indentify you are the true owner if needed. Best bet. Before you even upload. Watermark your material.
There are free watermark apps that you can use off of B2W. Anything wifey has on her FL page has "poundcake26" in huge transparent grey letters across the photo.
Even if precautions are taken to avoid folks "downloading" photos, a simple screenshot and crop / paste can get around that. For that matter, someone who is proficient in photoshop can probably remove most evidence of watermarks.
