Am I a pussy ?

You have been respectful. So of course. We are all different in good ways. I see I'm very different than most women or wives here. Yes I'm attracted to good looking black men. But I'm just not into the superior or slut wife type of thing. Don't want to be taken. Degraded. Owned. Slapped. Hair pulled. Nope. Just not me. I'll have my boyfriend outside of my husband. But he will adore and respect me. If not. I'm happy. So I have to be careful what I say here. I'm not like the others. And don't want to sound disrespectful to others.
My wife will not let anyone disrespect her either and she demands that a man pleases her but she also treats men with respect and trys to please. I do not feel inferior when I lick my wife while she gets fucked but I do realize that I have submitted to her on a very basic level and accept my role. I do not believe that one person is superior to another and I think that all women deserve respect although fantasy and role playing is not disrespect. Can you spot a submissive man
 
My wife will not let anyone disrespect her either and she demands that a man pleases her but she also treats men with respect and trys to please. I do not feel inferior when I lick my wife while she gets fucked but I do realize that I have submitted to her on a very basic level and accept my role. I do not believe that one person is superior to another and I think that all women deserve respect although fantasy and role playing is not disrespect. Can you spot a submissive man

I agree on many points. Very well put. I just have a dominate independent personality. Husband is more submissive. We've been through a lot. He's an amazing man. Many women want him. Good looking. Successful. Good build. Well spoken. Well liked. He has a dominate personality at work. But at home he's a yes man. I've taught him to come more out of his shell. So he's happiest when I live out my desires. I give him enough to keep him in line. When I have my steady boyfriend. He will get less. But he will know his roll and accept it and be happy. Hard to spot submissive men. Most are single. Most women are not attracted to submissive men. So find a confident good looking involved submissive man is rare. I think.
 
I agree on many points. Very well put. I just have a dominate independent personality. Husband is more submissive. We've been through a lot. He's an amazing man. Many women want him. Good looking. Successful. Good build. Well spoken. Well liked. He has a dominate personality at work. But at home he's a yes man. I've taught him to come more out of his shell. So he's happiest when I live out my desires. I give him enough to keep him in line. When I have my steady boyfriend. He will get less. But he will know his roll and accept it and be happy. Hard to spot submissive men. Most are single. Most women are not attracted to submissive men. So find a confident good looking involved submissive man is rare. I think.
I think that there are more submissive men than we think and that many wives actually control their husbands, they may not cuck them or make them publically admit to being submissive. Do you just have one boyfriend and does your hubby participate if I may be so bold to ask and thank you for the reply
 
I think that there are more submissive men than we think and that many wives actually control their husbands, they may not cuck them or make them publically admit to being submissive. Do you just have one boyfriend and does your hubby participate if I may be so bold to ask and thank you for the reply
If you word it that way. Then I'd say it's easier to spot a submissive man through his wife or girlfriends actions.
I have a boyfriend now. Just friends right now. He's my personal trainer. He knows my husband and the situation.
 
If you word it that way. Then I'd say it's easier to spot a submissive man through his wife or girlfriends actions.
I have a boyfriend now. Just friends right now. He's my personal trainer. He knows my husband and the situation.
obviously I find you very interesting and not because of the sex although that is nice . Did your husband resist becoming a cuckold and do other people know again it is none of my business but if you chose to reply and feel free to ask anything
 
obviously I find you very interesting and not because of the sex although that is nice . Did your husband resist becoming a cuckold and do other people know again it is none of my business but if you chose to reply and feel free to ask anything

This was all his doing. His idea. He brought it out in me. I enjoy it. To late to go back. We are happily married. It's not necessary. But we enjoy it.
 
This was all his doing. His idea. He brought it out in me. I enjoy it. To late to go back. We are happily married. It's not necessary. But we enjoy it.
hope you are not a nurse lol. We have been doing this for 2 decades but my wife has stopped. It started as open sex but quickly became her and another man and me. I think that I am starting to be able to pick out dominant females but scared to try ha ha. Do you find that you desire for sex with other men increased at a certain age. tom
 
Everyone is an individual. Can't speak for others. I had no desire for this. And if it doesn't happen I'm fine with that too. I'm very picky. I need an emotional bond first. But like I said. I'm happily married to a great guy. I'm already winning. But husband is just letting me have something I desire different than him. But that's his choice. Because he is not allowed to be with anyone but men. NEVER! That's the deal.
 
Everyone is an individual. Can't speak for others. I had no desire for this. And if it doesn't happen I'm fine with that too. I'm very picky. I need an emotional bond first. But like I said. I'm happily married to a great guy. I'm already winning. But husband is just letting me have something I desire different than him. But that's his choice. Because he is not allowed to be with anyone but men. NEVER! That's the deal.
I think you are more in control of everything than it seems , it sounds like my wife , I am allowed to suck cock and do whatever with a man she is fucking. Unlike you she prefers little emotional bonding but then again we travel alot. The never is very emphatic would love to be a fly on the wall. I learned to enjoy sucking and cleaning so it is easy , just gor to learn to obey the boss. I think that when a man submits and becomes a cuckold he submits to the woman pretty much totally and I also think some women really want that type of demonstration of submission
 
In my opinion being called '' Bitch '' is much better than being called '' Pussy'' in front of her Mr. Bull.
If your wife is calling you anything, other than your name, in front of other people ... then she doesn't have respect for you and that isn't good. Of course, if you LIKE her calling you names and humiliating you in front of others, that's different. But being disrespectful to your spouse, in front of others, is NOT good for the marriage. Even if she's teasing you, eventually the teasing erodes the respect she would have for you otherwise ... its psychologically damaging to both of you.
 
If your wife is calling you anything, other than your name, in front of other people ... then she doesn't have respect for you and that isn't good. Of course, if you LIKE her calling you names and humiliating you in front of others, that's different. But being disrespectful to your spouse, in front of others, is NOT good for the marriage. Even if she's teasing you, eventually the teasing erodes the respect she would have for you otherwise ... its psychologically damaging to both of you.
I don't know but in almost every cuckold movie we have watched the wife did call some names in front of her Bull or Bulls. Even In some cuckold movies the Bull told the husband to shut up and watch his wife getting fucked. So we or my wife is confused.
 
The porn movies are terrible and should not be used as a model to base a relationship on, the movies make most of the actors look stupid and as far as using names it does not really matter as long as everyone knows the intent, so if she says come here baby and clean up this mess it is not necessarily mean
 
... we or my wife is confused.
.....I just know if we were having a 3-some and the other guy showed me the least bit of disrespect, my wife would step right in and correct him, and possibly even tell him to leave.
.....Sharing your wife with someone is suppose to be enjoyable to the both of you, not just one. If the 2 of you enjoy a bull who "takes charge", making demands and giving orders, etc, that's one thing, but if its not on your menu of what is "fun" to you, then it has to stop or it damages the marriage. Cuckold movies have a lot of various scenarios to meet the interests of more people, but it doesn't mean you have to agree with all of them you see. For example, some movies show the husband dressed up in women's clothing, or sucking the bull's cock ... if these aren't what you enjoy, leave them out. The basic idea is to have fun and "enjoy the sex", and how it stimulates your relationship with your spouse after its over.
 
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