My wife will not let anyone disrespect her either and she demands that a man pleases her but she also treats men with respect and trys to please. I do not feel inferior when I lick my wife while she gets fucked but I do realize that I have submitted to her on a very basic level and accept my role. I do not believe that one person is superior to another and I think that all women deserve respect although fantasy and role playing is not disrespect. Can you spot a submissive manYou have been respectful. So of course. We are all different in good ways. I see I'm very different than most women or wives here. Yes I'm attracted to good looking black men. But I'm just not into the superior or slut wife type of thing. Don't want to be taken. Degraded. Owned. Slapped. Hair pulled. Nope. Just not me. I'll have my boyfriend outside of my husband. But he will adore and respect me. If not. I'm happy. So I have to be careful what I say here. I'm not like the others. And don't want to sound disrespectful to others.