Afraid of trying BBC

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by bicos919, Sep 17, 2016.

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  1. bicos919

    bicos919 New Member

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    Hi All,

    I've been fantasizing a lot abt seeing wife going to BBC but Im afraid of getting jealous. In addition, her pussy is not that wide so it might get teared up.

    Another thing, in case I am okay with it, how can I convince her to try a BBC?

    Thanks.
     
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  2. Torpedo

    Torpedo Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    Best thing is to talk to her, maybe she is happy with what she is getting. As to accommodating a large man I have found that the best solution is to put her on top. Just because a male has a large cock doesn't mean he is a good fuck. When wielding a large cock especially with a woman that hasn't experience a big one care must be taken. A large cock can make for a painful experience and can cause physical damage. If this is something that she is willing to try you need to involve her every step of the way. Just because she says that she is willing to try a black cock usually doesn't mean she is willing to try any black cock. Even for casual sex there needs to be a certain level of attraction
     
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  3. bicos919

    bicos919 New Member

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    Alright many thanks for your reply!
     
  4. donpousti

    donpousti New Member

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    I too would like to talk to my wife about this. I really don't know how she would react. That is the scary part
     
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  5. MacNfries

    MacNfries Well-Known Member Sweet & Cordial Gold Member

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    ....As new members to b2w, I'd like to welcome you, and encourage you to fill out your profile & personal details pages if you desire serious responses from forum members. The question you ask is one that is often asked in this forum, and no two people's situations are identical; it depends on each couples particular circumstances and prior sexual experiences.
    ....I think if you can't discuss certain topics with your spouse (like including a 3rd party in your sexual relationship), then your marriage isn't stable enough to handle an interracial cuckolding involvement. Also, bicos eludes to the number one problem ... having remorse/regrets after the event, if it happens. "Emotions" that are created when this happen can be positive and negative ... each person tends to handle these emotions differently. Guys, there's no reversing it AFTER it happens. If you've never seen your spouse having sex with another man, I can assure you that you'll never look at your wife in the same way again after it happens the first time. And if you do have regrets, both you and your spouse will have to live with the irreversible stress of the event throughout the rest of your marriage ... if there are kids at home, it means they suffer as well.
    ....So, if you do this, you do it to enhance/renew the sexual excitement between/for the 2 of you as it was the first time you had sex with each other. Tell us what types of sexual fun that you have together (fantasies, roll play, sex toys, porn, etc), and really important as to whether your spouse is knowledgeable of your postings to this website. There are ideas, guidelines, and suggestions that members can offer you, but I would think if you're serious about getting your spouse interested in this, that you want good advice.

    ....Look forward to reading your individual stories ... Mac
     
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  6. BethLuvsBBConly

    BethLuvsBBConly Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    As far as telling your wife, start with fantasizing about adding another man while you two have sex. While enjoying doggie style, talk about having someone lick her clit. If it turns her on, then reverse that saying that you would love to clit her clit while another man is deep inside. Start with fantasy then slowly build off that.

    If you have sincere concern that you may get jealous, that is a real risk. I had been with many men, women, and couples over the years, with hubby watching, participating, being cuckold, etc. He loved it. However, he struggled when I went black because he had never seen me having multiple squirting orgasms. And needing it more and more. He asked me to stop; I couldn't. Don't go down this road unless you are sure. Over the years I have seen my share of fights when the wife enjoyed sex with someone else too much.
     
  7. TopCat

    TopCat Moderator Staff Member Real Person Gold Member

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    I'm not a medical doctor or any kind of medical expert but this is my insight on the subject matter.

    To address your "pussy is not that wide and tearing up issue". With the appropriate arousal and lubrication, most vaginas can expand to fit whatever size penis. Cervical contact may hurt from deep penetration, but it doesn’t hurt your cervix, and when fully engorged, the vagina gets longer and wider for more room to play, hopefully away from the cervix.

    It's pretty rare for younger women in their 20s and 30s, to have problems accommodating or adjusting to a large penis.