Advice

BethLuvsBBConly

Female
Gold Member
#3
Have you asked her what she thinks of black men and their reputation as being great at sex? If you decided to watch ir porn, make sure you select videos of amateurs, especially those of married women with their hubby there. I will guarantee many women will say no, but secretly fantasize about it.
 

BethLuvsBBConly

Female
Gold Member
#5
Wow really?? I wasn't sure to show amateur or not when watching ir porn
Real porn is so fake, sometimes plain stupid. If she sees real wives get incredible sex with hubby's enthusiastic approval, it would probably work better. I would avoid the hard-core cuckold humiliation type in the beginning. Some of those annoy me and I love having a sub cuck hubby.
 
#6
Real porn is so fake, sometimes plain stupid. If she sees real wives get incredible sex with hubby's enthusiastic approval, it would probably work better. I would avoid the hard-core cuckold humiliation type in the beginning. Some of those annoy me and I love having a sub cuck hubby.
Ah yeah I get what you mean just regular ir porn with husband watching and enjoying it
 
#7
Start by talking to her first, find out what she likes. Also, show her some amateur vids not professional porn. Professional porn is pretty fake but the amateur stuff is more of what happens in our homes. But, the best place to start is just to talk to her just bring it up as something you heard about at work.
 

MacNfries

Male
Sweet & Cordial
Gold Member
From
NC, US
#8
Anyone have some advice on how to convince my gf to try BBC?
Since the 2 of you are still in the infancy of a relationship ( not married, not engaged, etc) the best you should hope for right now is that she'd be willing to consider some 3-some sex, whether its interracial or not. Once you can get to that point, she might be willing to go the next step, but since you're still in a dating status, she's probably still sizing you up as to whether her relationship with you is worth a more serious commitment ... it's just the process of relationships.

Actually the first "swing" type relationship my wife & I had was when we were dating, as well, and it was with a girlfriend of hers. So, you're girlfriend is either ready to "branch out" or she's not. If she's shown any interest in porn, you might could test the waters a bit to see how interested she'd be in adding another guy to your sexual relationship to "heighten her enjoyment", but you've got to be sure she's convinced its for HER, and don't be surprised if she coldly refuses the suggestion. And if you're not even to that stage in your relationship where you can "suggest" or discuss these topics, then you're most definitely not ready to add partners to your sexual relationship.
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