I know from trying that my wife won't have sex with a bbc. I tried to get her to agree to that for years. However, I think I could get her to allow a black male LMT to give her a massage with me present in the room. That way I could see a black man's hands please my wife and I get to watch. Do y'all think this would be a suitable plan? And if so, how do I go about finding a masseur near Nashville ? Thanks for your responses.