Advice on the BBC lifestyle

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  1. Cuckcpl83

    Cuckcpl83 Well-Known Member Real Person

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    Hey all I posted this questions on the general discussion but I figured they would be better answered and discussed here. Both my wife and I monitor the threads and will participate.

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    1. Public display of affection between BBC and wife. Any thoughts or ideas . Is it a huge turn on for all if so why. We seem to be moving that way. Her current BF is becoming more comfortable and she is ready to take it public.

    2. Does anyone let their BBC spend the night? Wife is talking about let him spend the night this weekend and she will sleep in the middle.

    3. We have been in the lifestyle for a while so I was looking for suggestion on how to push our limits. She is supper comfortable being a queen of spades now even wears an anklets with the queen of spades on it. So how can the limits be pushed in public and private. Ideas.
     
  2. inkedangels

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    Hi Both, we began this journey just over 2 yrs ago, initially Mrs inked said she would never do anything like this! Curiosity got the better of her and we now enjoy this life style and even have a regular BBC who we are both good friends with.
    When we go out together, they act like the couple, and it turns us on seeing others wondering what is going on. we even went on a short break to Portugal together where they for all purpose were the couple. its a turn on for us. Our regular BBC as stayed at our house on occasions but we have kids so cannot always so on occasions I have booked them into hotel whilst I have babysat.
    Just always be open and honest with each other. your limits are your limits. enjoy the fun
     
  3. Cuckcpl83

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    Here's to the weekend
     

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  4. Cuckcpl83

    Cuckcpl83 Well-Known Member Real Person

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    As long as both of you are having FUN, that's all that matters. My husband gets so turned on watching me flirt with other men. And we have the best SEX EVER
     
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    Do it all
     
  6. CuckCpl4BBC

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    We do love the public display as long as it is not in our own backyard. I was very reluctant to go along with this but a little public play with a black bull drives me a little wild. It also makes my husband crazy in a good way. Highly recommended.

    We have spent the night at my steady bulls and I slept in the middle. Expect to wake up several times with a bbc working its way into your pussy. Being f*cked by a huge cock while my husband is laying there, facing away but fully aware of what I was doing, was an incredible turn on. The morning sex is also fantastic. It got to the point he would insist on us going to sleep with his big cock inside me. Hard to sleep because this turns you into a raging slut lol.

    As far as pushing the limits if you have a good steady dominant bull he will push and push and push. Turns out it great fun having your limits pushed. He will push you and your husband.
     
  7. Usnluv

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    We have been living and locking our chosen lifestyle for five years now. Although we actually began cuckolding manay years before, on a part time or play when we can scenerio. Five years ago our youngest moved out, allowing us to live for us. That is wgphen she met her first Black man lover.

    In that to e we have evolved as a cuckold couple in many ways.

    Public displays of affection are a huge turn on for us both. Its an absolute must for my wife. It makes her crazy with desire. For me it makes me proud. I must admit that as time goes on the need for hiding is diminishing. We are in a " we don't care what people think" additude. Now its very common for my wife to go to dinner with her Bull in our town.

    Every Lover my wife has had has spent the night in our home and marriage bed. One even lived with us for several months. It is also not uncommon for her to spend the night or weekend at his place. We don't sleep all together. I sleep in the spare bedroom, my room when they are here together.
     
  8. Roy Randall

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    Great
    Thank you for sharing these ...your ecperiences with us..
     
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  10. jdflacpl

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    My wife and I are working on doing the same thing just need to find that perfect regular bull. A few weeks ago we meet a young black guy at a chillis we were sitting at the bar another couple came in and sat near us we were on the corner and the took the 2 seats on the same corner leaving 1 between us and them. When our "new friend showed up and sat down in the empty seat the wife of the other couple took notice, She even commented on something we were talking about. My dick got hard as a rock as she watched the 3 of us walk out together our new friend was escorting my wife out. I love public display of affection and I can't wait for her to spend the night with one some time
     
  11. cuckold7

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    Question 1:
    I think many cuckold couples that have been into the cuckolding lifestyle for a long time need something even more hardcore after awhile. I have heard of cuckold couples that have taken cuckolding into public areas. This is more taboo and far more sexually arousing.

    If you want your wife to show affection towards a black man in public and you are nearby i think you should stand at least about 20 metres away from them so that it does not look that obvious that you are in a cuckold relationship. Taking your cuckold relationship into public areas can be very embarrassing so i think for the first few times you should stand a few metres away from them.

    If you walk with your wife in public while she is walking with a black man, many people will stare. It will mostly be white people that will stare, some cuckolds find this very arousing because the taboo factor is very high. Many years ago i walked with a white female friend of mine and her black boyfriend in public, i walked about 20 metres behind them many white people stared and this made my cock very hard.

    Question 2: You should only invite the bull to your house if you trust him. Your safety should always come first. If you invite him to your house he can have sex with your wife while you are sleeping on the same bed. The sound of them having sex right next to you can be very arousing. And even when he leaves, his cum stains will remain in the sheets which means you will have to sleep in the same spot that his cum stains are. Some cuckolds like this.

    Question 3: Pushing limits in public:
    I have always had this fantasy of taking my white wife to a parking area at a busy shopping mall and then parking as close to the entrance as possible while she is having sex with a black man in the car, all this happening while people are walking past the car. I know of one white couple that have actually done this. Obviously making sure that people don't see.
    Some cuckold couples will even ask a black man to cum on the wifes face and then spread the cum evenly to not make it look so obvious and then walk in public with a black mans cum on her face. I have seen a video of a couple doing this. It's very taboo. Because the people in public are unaware of whats happening it makes it even more arousing. I have also heard of cuckold couples that have gone to events with dried semen on the wifes face.

    You can take your wife and the bull to a clothing store in a shopping mall and let them go into a changing room to "fit on clothes" while in there they can have sex while you are waiting outside. You can look for changing room sex videos online to get an idea of what i'm talking about.

    I'm not sure if anybody has done this but i have always had this fantasy of taking my white wife to an area thats full of white people that don't approve of interracial dating. I know a few areas that have alot of people that don't approve of interracial dating. What i would like to do is to drive my wife and her bull to one of these areas and then park the car as close to these racists as possible and then let them have sex. It will turn me on knowing that interracial sex is happening so close to people that don't approve of it.
     
  12. g8ters06

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    My husband encourages public display of affection between my black lover and I. He usually walks a few steps behind us when we are out together so he can see the reactions we get while holding hands, groping and kissing. He gets really turned on and I get wet thinking about getting back home and into our bed with my lover. The public display is sort of like foreplay to us...

    Yes, my lover spends the night quite often but since we have 2 daughters, it has to be planned. When he does spend the night, my husband sleeps in the spare room on the opposite end of the house from our master bedroom.
     
  13. Cuckcpl83

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    Thank you all for the comments and ideas. We look forward to trying some and hearing more.

    Her current boyfriend just asked if they could move to the next level which includes dates, alone time and sleep overs. Thoughts? Suggestions to make it more exciting.

    Thanks
     
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  14. Army cuck

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    My ex wife and I did all of this. We used to go out and she would function as his GF. I enjoyed it as did they. He would stay the night at times even when I wasn't there. She would even wear her I ❤️BBC anklet in public. We didn't get divorced over any of this.

    My current GF that I corrupted ha ha makes her seem tame. She likes to push limits on her own and has a wicked imagination. She has no problem hanging on a BBC in public. We haven't invited anyone to her place or my place her but I'm sure when we meet the right guy it will happen. We've been on the lookout for the right guy.

    As far as pushing limits she has some great ideas. Things like taking me and her BBC to her highschool reunion. She wants to introduce me as her husband but hang all over him all night.

    Our date nights are after she's been filled with BBC cum so we are out together while his cum is swimming around inside of her. We plan on vacations with a BBC or to Jamaica, has talked about a tattoo under her wedding ring if we get married or a cuckold wedding night, she's even made me cum on the floor by her bed so my cum will always be the first thing and the last thing she steps on at night.

    She's very imaginative. I love it. I post every so often when she's done something naughty. Maybe it will give you ideas.
     
  15. Cuckcpl83

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    Army Cuck. Awesome. My wife is also an army wife Would love to here more from others.
     
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  16. 804Gentleman

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    1. Usually it is a turn on for all. And even some outsiders who may suspect what's really afoot.
    2. Hope you have a king size bed. When I've spent the night. ..hubby is either in the guest room for sleep or on the floor with blankets and pillows at the foot of the bed
    3. Has she been gangbanged? Does she play while you're away or at work? May chauffeur her and the bull for a date night. Ask her to keep him satisfied in the back seat as you drive. See a movie. Let them get seats while you gather concessions. You sit in a seat behind them and watch them enjoy being together as they whisper and give pda.
     
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  17. wannabe cuck

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    When we were in to swinging we used to do the public thing on a regular basis, but never on our own doorstep because we have kid's. It was was always day's out or weekend's away, it was so hot to see my wife going between me and another guy and seeing the reactions on other people's faces.so yes definitely go for it and anything that promotes the cuckold lifestyle has to be a good thing ;-)
     
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  18. Cuckcpl83

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    Awesome thank you for everyone's input. Looking forward to hearing more and sharing our experiences as well.

    As of now she is dating but still in the early stages trying to figure out where it's going to to.
     
  19. LeeandJen

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    1. It is a huge turn on for both of us. She loves to be seen with a young black stud in public, especially Las Vegas. I can stand and watch the room for hours when she is at a crap table with her lover, touching and kissing at the table.

    2. Always when we get to know one enough to know that we are both comfortable. They are always amazed at how she initiates the early morning sexual session. I like to serve them breakfast in bed as a way to thank him for the night.

    3. Sounds like us exactly, she wears hers everyday. Try a party like Naughty in Nawlins or the Mocha Splash event in Florida. These give you both the opportunities to push the limits.
     
  20. Cuckcpl83

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    Thank you all. Was seeing if we can spark up this conversation again