Hey all I posted this questions on the general discussion but I figured they would be better answered and discussed here. Both my wife and I monitor the threads and will participate. Questions- 1. Public display of affection between BBC and wife. Any thoughts or ideas . Is it a huge turn on for all if so why. We seem to be moving that way. Her current BF is becoming more comfortable and she is ready to take it public. 2. Does anyone let their BBC spend the night? Wife is talking about let him spend the night this weekend and she will sleep in the middle. 3. We have been in the lifestyle for a while so I was looking for suggestion on how to push our limits. She is supper comfortable being a queen of spades now even wears an anklets with the queen of spades on it. So how can the limits be pushed in public and private. Ideas.