If tha bitch is married then it's the cucko who's got to pay. It's all his fault. I only sent some cards and gifts for xmas and b-days, and checked the children were treated appropriately. if the woman is single, it depends. They mostly have a family, parents or brothers to take care of the mom and babies. I'm not old, but at my age have sometimes thought about settling down with one of the other, but I wouldn't make a rule of it. If any of us did, we were bankrupt, dude.