Hi we are Adam and Ashley. She has always been BBC curious but never really been outspoken about it. We have been married for 4 years I have figured out that she has been looking it up on her phone. Not mad at all about it actually kind of turns me on LOL. But my real question is if we go down this road, and do it how do we make sure or married to stay strong and not either one of those get weirded out.
a new phase in our marriage
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Communication is key. Relax and just v go with it.
same boat here. Very curious. Never tried it.
My wife & I have done a bit of swinging in our earlier part of our marriage and when we were dating (been together 20 years now), and associated with other couples who have done the same. In our opinion, there are some basic understandings you should adhere to avoid marital issues:
- If you're doing this to help resolve marital issues that already exists, don't do it. If either partner has already cheated on the other, that's a good sign that this is not a good idea, as the "trust" issue & marriage integrity has already been breached.
- Avoiding romantic attachments & involvements is essential ... involving others in sex should be for sexual stimuli only. Emotional attachments only complicate relationship. Personally, we ruled out "dating" and "romantic get-aways" as those long periods of time alone with someone only encourage problems.
- Set rules & parameters to having sexual involvements ... (condoms, spouse involvement, & private meetings, etc).
- If you have children in the home, and you're inexperienced with alternative sexual relationships, its wise to keep in mind that your behavior & activities impact more than just you and your spouse.
- And of course you should have good communications with each other, as MisterPussy mentions. If you're afraid to discuss this kind of topic openly with your spouse, then that's a hint that the 2 of you possibly haven't established good communications yet.
- Keep in mind that rarely do outsiders give a rats ass about your marriage. Its outcome is ALL ON YOU.
My husband fucks me with a Mr. Marcus dildo. Its a mold of his real cock. From the pornos I have watched him in I would say that its totally accurate. He was on YOU Tube discussing how they made the mold of his cock. All I can say its fantastic.. I cum in no time with it over and over. You should try it. I has brought me to the next level of desiring a real BBC. I watch interracial porn with Mr Marcus fucking another woman.. I moan just like she does.. After I am done, my husband gets his sloppy seconds. He love the stretched wet pussy. He is no slouch himself being at nearly 9 inches. Which is alot for a white boy.. lol
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If you decide to advertise for a stud bull (e.g. Tinder, etc) I suggest a few things - never share pics that you don't want everyone you know to see! Meet in a public place first to see if it I safe to carry on; wear condoms at first and ask for D&D free prove (e.g. recent medical certificate); decide together what you will and will not do (e.g. anal; creampie licking)
Good luck and take your time in choosing a black stud
Good luck and take your time in choosing a black stud
In the scheme of things almost totally irrelevant compared to the other issues people have discussed above.
...and, there's nothing wrong with liking mermaids for their fish-half !
Yum !
.....a little salt and pepper...
If you are going for BBC then it should be at least 9 inches in my opinion.
So, share your wonderful experiences, Newt, of how you walk up to a black man and ask him if he has "at least 9 inches" before you pursue him?
This I gotta hear ...
LifeStyle Condoms did a study, and there are others with similar results, looking to find out erect penis sizes because they wanted to be sure they were making and selling the correct size condoms for guys. They found that one of every 19,000 guys has 9 inches or more. Let me repeat, one out of every 19,000 guys.
Happy hunting.
Very good point Mac and it's certainly worth more than two cents.
Great advice! Communication above all else is key.
I wouldn't but that's why I'm here . I can ask here and I can see the pictures here. But I never said I was going to go up to a guy and ask him if he has 9 inches or more . I said that's what he should have. That's the beauty of this site you can be direct , you can see their body, you can see their cock. You can ask directly how many inches and how thick it is. You can't do that out in person. That's what this site is for helping people find what they want. And I never said I have wonderful experiences. I am new at this I am just saying that I would prefer 9 inches or more in my humble opinion or more. I just gave my opinion I didn't want to get ridiculed by someone. Understand? Geeeze never thought I'd come to BBC site and get ridiculed by a white guy.
