A new experience...

[Mariposa blanca]

Well, I had another first today. I spent part of the afternoon in a private room at a local adult "videostore" with the most recent guy in my life. This was our second "playtime", the first taking place in a nearby hotel. Since I had been rather "sheltered" growing up, I had never been to a place like this before, and thought I'd share my first impressions.

Pros:
- MUCH cheaper than a hotel room - big pro!
- additional "entertainment" available if you take advantage of the general theatre (we didn't)

Cons:
- not nearly as comfortable as a nice, roomy queen-sized bed
- not necessarily as clean
- openings at the top, so others can hear if you get loud
- no access to a shower to freshen up after (or during, even)

Would I go again? Sure, especially for just a quick, down and dirty session. I will admit, though, that I really didn't even pay the slightest bit of attention to the video we had playing. LOL. And I will also admit to really looking forward to the luxurious queen-sized bed we will have for our next romp. But sure, I'd go there again.

Just a few impressions from a newbie.

 

[thanos]

It's all about the moment...

 

[Mariposa blanca]

Very true! And in those moments, the only thoughts in my head (well, the ones I was listening to, anyway) were how much I wanted to get my hands, and lips, on his naked body. So, yes, it's all about the moment.

 

[thanos]

Very true! And in those moments, the only thoughts in my head (well, the ones I was listening to, anyway) were how much I wanted to get my hands, and lips, on his naked body. So, yes, it's all about the moment.

Pleasure... Sometimes the forbidden fruit! Indulge eat from the tree of life..

 

[Mariposa blanca]

Pleasure... Sometimes the forbidden fruit! Indulge eat from the tree of life..

Definitely! I spend far too much of my life not living in the moment, because I would rather be elsewhere at the time. I can honestly say, though, that I was fully in the moment during every second I spent with him this afternoon, whether it was driving to/from, the sex, or the ******* and bite to eat at a bar after.

 

[thanos]

Definitely! I spend far too much of my life not living in the moment, because I would rather be elsewhere at the time. I can honestly say, though, that I was fully in the moment during every second I spent with him this afternoon, whether it was driving to/from, the sex, or the ******* and bite to eat at a bar after.

Never take the little or simple things for granted. Sometimes our fondest memories will get us through life.

 

[thanos]

Why chase, what's already in front of you. Seems like you have found your pleasure, and not treated it like an object. You need a connection. Which some others put last, And they will lose out on true pleasure.

 

[Mariposa blanca]

Why chase, what's already in front of you. Seems like you have found your pleasure, and not treated it like an object. You need a connection. Which some others put last, And they will lose out on true pleasure.

Truth.

 

[Torpedo]

If you both had a good time and weren't arrested it was a good thing. There is nothing wrong with " A
down and dirty quickie". and knowing that others may see or see you can add to the intensity for a lot of people. Personally I prefer a large comfortable bed and a couple of hours, but if you got your toes curled that can never be a bad thing

 

[Mariposa blanca]

If you both had a good time and weren't arrested it was a good thing. There is nothing wrong with " A down and dirty quickie". and knowing that others may see or see you can add to the intensity for a lot of people. Personally I prefer a large comfortable bed and a couple of hours, but if you got your toes curled that can never be a bad thing

My preference would also be for the large, comfortable bed, but this worked out fine. I'm looking forward to next month's arranged gettogether at a hotel, though, where we will have all the time in the world to play, delight, tantalize and rock each other's world... Over and over. ;-)

 

[Torpedo]

Too many times many of us let good things slip by. Apparently your lover had a hard cock and you wanted it in you. And you succeeded. Being good at improvising is always a good skill.

 

[Mariposa blanca]

Too many times many of us let good things slip by. Apparently your lover had a hard cock and you wanted it in you. And you succeeded. Being good at improvising is always a good skill.

A resounding yes to all five points above. ;-)

But it's not like we were in any real danger of being hauled away by the local constabulary.

 

[marie59]

How did you set this up? Is there really danger to being arrested or would you just be kicked out?

 

[Mariposa blanca]

He knew of the place and suggested it. It's been around for years. No real concern about arrest.