A new experience...

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  1. Mariposa blanca

    Mariposa blanca Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Well, I had another first today. I spent part of the afternoon in a private room at a local adult "videostore" with the most recent guy in my life. This was our second "playtime", the first taking place in a nearby hotel. Since I had been rather "sheltered" growing up, I had never been to a place like this before, and thought I'd share my first impressions.

    Pros:
    - MUCH cheaper than a hotel room - big pro!
    - additional "entertainment" available if you take advantage of the general theatre (we didn't)

    Cons:
    - not nearly as comfortable as a nice, roomy queen-sized bed
    - not necessarily as clean
    - openings at the top, so others can hear if you get loud
    - no access to a shower to freshen up after (or during, even)

    Would I go again? Sure, especially for just a quick, down and dirty session. I will admit, though, that I really didn't even pay the slightest bit of attention to the video we had playing. LOL. And I will also admit to really looking forward to the luxurious queen-sized bed we will have for our next romp. But sure, I'd go there again.

    Just a few impressions from a newbie. :)
     
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  2. thanos

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    It's all about the moment...
     
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  3. Mariposa blanca

    Mariposa blanca Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Very true! And in those moments, the only thoughts in my head (well, the ones I was listening to, anyway) were how much I wanted to get my hands, and lips, on his naked body. So, yes, it's all about the moment. :)
     
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  4. thanos

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    Pleasure... Sometimes the forbidden fruit! Indulge eat from the tree of life..
     
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  5. Mariposa blanca

    Mariposa blanca Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Definitely! I spend far too much of my life not living in the moment, because I would rather be elsewhere at the time. I can honestly say, though, that I was fully in the moment during every second I spent with him this afternoon, whether it was driving to/from, the sex, or the drink and bite to eat at a bar after.
     
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  6. thanos

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    Never take the little or simple things for granted. Sometimes our fondest memories will get us through life.
     
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  7. thanos

    thanos Banned

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    Why chase, what's already in front of you. Seems like you have found your pleasure, and not treated it like an object. You need a connection. Which some others put last, And they will lose out on true pleasure.
     
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  8. Mariposa blanca

    Mariposa blanca Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Truth.
     
  9. Torpedo

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    If you both had a good time and weren't arrested it was a good thing. There is nothing wrong with " A
    down and dirty quickie". and knowing that others may see or see you can add to the intensity for a lot of people. Personally I prefer a large comfortable bed and a couple of hours, but if you got your toes curled that can never be a bad thing;)
     
  10. Mariposa blanca

    Mariposa blanca Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    My preference would also be for the large, comfortable bed, but this worked out fine. I'm looking forward to next month's arranged gettogether at a hotel, though, where we will have all the time in the world to play, delight, tantalize and rock each other's world... Over and over. ;-)
     
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  11. Torpedo

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    Too many times many of us let good things slip by. Apparently your lover had a hard cock and you wanted it in you. And you succeeded. Being good at improvising is always a good skill.:)
     
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  12. Mariposa blanca

    Mariposa blanca Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    A resounding yes to all five points above. ;-)

    But it's not like we were in any real danger of being hauled away by the local constabulary. :)
     
  13. marie59

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    How did you set this up? Is there really danger to being arrested or would you just be kicked out?
     
  14. Mariposa blanca

    Mariposa blanca Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    He knew of the place and suggested it. It's been around for years. No real concern about arrest. :)