learn about what it’s like to cheat or cuck a guy, and go from there.
Hi Summer,
....wow, you certainly have committed yourself with one guy for quite some time now, haven't you? I can appreciate your curiosity of what it would be like to be with other guys, as it certainly is 'different' with each person you get involved with, that's for sure. However, you have an 'investment' of time and emotional involvement here, and I can't imagine you truly desiring to know what its like to 'cheat' on your BF. Although the initial feeling might be one of excitement, the longer term feeling will probably be one of regret that you destroyed a 'friendship' in the future. You should imagine how you would feel IF the situation was reversed and he was really cheating on you. Plus, you're very young and how you handle this situation will probably set precedence on how you handle similar situations in the future, so I encourage you to always be honest with your partners and treat them the same way you'd desire them to treat you should they develop the same urges. Its very likely that IF you are becoming bored with the sexual parts of your current relationship, so is your partner. Falling out of love with someone is as common as falling in love, except the emotions are in reverse, and someone gets really hurt.
....That said, I can understand your desire to experiment; I wouldn't take anything for any of the sexual experiences I've had in my life ... each unique, each different; you deserve those same kind of experiences ... everyone does who desires them. So the
real question for you should be WHAT do you desire to do with your current relationship once the commitment to each other ends ... do you want friendship, do you want to be able to occasional return for a memory fuck, etc ... or have you made the decision its time to walk away and burn the bridge behind you, and then feel really bad each time you run into him in the future.
....So, if you desire to retain a friendship, as surely you've invested as much time to him as he has to you, its time the two of you sit and talk first about your relationship going
forward ... what you'd like to do & what your needs are. We're talking
sex, here, not starting a new emotional commitment with someone else ...
just sex. So, maybe try some 3-somes with other people (both males & females) and with black men to quince that desire you have to experience that as well. Just don't go behind his back. Be honest with him as he deserves that from you. Invite him to join you, but then be insistent of what your needs are
now. He'll understand that ... as he probably has a similar desire to try those new experiences.
....Just try to treat him the way you would want him to treat you IF the situation were reversed ... in fact, do that with ALL your life experiences and I think you'll come out a winner most the time and people will respect you for that.
