10. You’re no longer getting what you want or need from the relationship. 9. You can no longer communicate with your partner. 8. You no longer look forward to spending time alone with your partner. 7. You criticize or micro-manage your partner. 6. You compare your partner to others. 5. You tried to change your partner. 4. You don’t laugh anymore. 3. You’re doing all the giving (or all the getting). 2. Your friends no longer like being around you when you’re with your partner. 1. You no longer feel good about yourself or the relationship.