Based on posts in this thread, we found people who should work well together based on what we are looking for. But then the geography has to work as well. Grinz
It's basically dating. With the rest of life going on as well. Takes time. Seems to me some have interest in devoting more time than others. Can make the whole thing challenging.
Don't always get response. When you do its often just someone looking for quickie. Can we meet tonight?
No. We just found you. Want to get to know you a little better first. Build up a level of trust. Comfort. Big steps being taken. Risks involved. Situation needs to be right for all...
Long term with one. There is a lot of time and energy involved in finding one. Don't want that process to become the lifestyle. Find one and enjoy. Over and over.
I feel similar at this point. Second response is asking for pics or when we can meet. Takes a little more than that. And first contact is rarely more than a line or two.
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