Welcome. Would like to suggest you take a few minutes and verify as a real person. Helps others know you are who you say and not another man posing as a female. Super easy to do and I've attached the link for you.
https://www.blacktowhite.net/threads/read-me-1st-how-to-become-verified-as-a-real-person.50490/
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https://www.blacktowhite.net/threads/read-me-1st-how-to-become-verified-as-a-real-person.50490/
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