Would like to suggest you take a few minutes to verify as a real person. Helps others know you are who you say, and then we know that wife is part of this as well. Super easy to do and I've attached the link for you.
https://www.blacktowhite.net/threads/read-me-1st-how-to-become-verified-as-a-real-person.50490/
https://www.blacktowhite.net/pages/forum-rules/
https://www.blacktowhite.net/threads/read-me-1st-how-to-become-verified-as-a-real-person.50490/
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