Recent content by Wife4Black77

That is hot as fuck!!! I wish more people would share their stories. What was the first time like? Sounds like your hubby was very much into it from the start and neither of you wanted to appear too eager. LOL

Interesting that you say this. We were in couples counseling and keep in mind that we are also contemplating sex therapy. She’s telling our therapist how she just feels uncomfortable about my fantasy and always feels like she is letting me down. She isn’t comfortable with the sex talk or role...

Don’t push it. She is getting wild and into it in the bedroom. That is a huge positive. If you ******* things and go beyond what she is comfortable with you risk undermining her trust and safety concerns which will make your road much, much tougher. Just be chill. Maybe you could take her out to...

Sorry to be so blunt here, and maybe I’m alone with this take, but it just doesn’t make sense to me. You haven’t shared your fantasy with your wife because she’s “really conservative.” My wife is (sexually) very conservative and I told her, full disclosure, about my fantasy 24 years ago before...

So wait….. all of this talk is from your perspective, not one mention of what your wife said about this massively hung, nude black guy hugging her naked body? You discussed him later and no mention what her comments or thoughts were? It almost sounds like fiction. Did you guys fuck later? Was...

Nope but feel free to list your sources.

We are in counseling (regular) and the plan is to discuss my needs around my fantasy but my counselor suggested, and I agree, that we see a licensed sex therapist to go over this stuff. We’ll tackle communication and parenting challenges but I want the sex discussions to be lead by a specialized...

I am a wannabe cuck who confessed my IR cuck fantasy to my wife before we got married. Had ZERO intention of our family ever knowing, but…. I created a cheat sheet for my wife explaining what made my fantasy so hot, and included suggested things I wanted her to say to me while we play. Didn’t...

I think many people on here just don’t get it. A number of us have sexually repressed wives who have had it beat into their brains since they were little girls that exploring or even embracing their sexual needs and desires is not what good girls/women/wives and certainly not mothers, DO. That...

Maybe I can suggest the thyroid testing, but as far as hormone level she will never agree to do H therapy since her mom died of ovarian cancer. I even showed her studies on topical hormone creams but no risk, no matter how minimal is acceptable to her.

How about giving some thought to tellling your wife about your fantasy? That’s legit and a real step towards making something happen. You keep bumping your own post trying to get more folks feeding your fantasy musings. Just mental masturbation at this point.

Totally understand. It’s a unique situation. Hoping someone will be interested and DM me. If it’s only about lining up a fuck, there’s nothing wrong with that. People should ask for and get what they want. And I agree that those that are looking for that wouldn’t be interested in what I propose...

Well white males can’t be verified. I’m legit, and on the level, and am open for real contact, but the verification stuff isn’t in the cards.

To try to optimize the experience, avoid pitfalls and address safety or other concerns (for all parties: cucks, their wife/gf, and the other man), what questions would you recommend be asked and answered up front? I have no LS experience but what comes to mind for me: What are you looking for...

Before I wrote this post I talked to my counselor about it. She said, “I think it could become pretty awkward & the guy might feel like he was being used. I mean if you become friends with a black guy then try to introduce your fantasy, he probably would feel like the whole thing was a set up.”...