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Chicago’s Premier Lifestyle Lover
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General
Ashley here... a 40yo, 6‘3, 235lbs bull/stag/sensualist with 18+ years of experience in the Swinger and Hotwife lifestyle. I'm looking for intelligent, funny play partners and lifestyle friends interested in sexy, trusting encounters. I'm a Chicagoan who loves the arts, entertainment, sports, traveling and the gym. Couples, or ladies, you won't find a better host when visiting Chicago.
I'm naturally sensual but I've grown to really enjoy being dominant...NOT domineering...with select women I trust and who trust me. My interests include passionate kissing, oral, hair pulling, sexy/dirty talk, light chokking, spanking/flogging, mf, mff, mfm, assplay, DP, pregnant women, group sex and multiple positions (standing/laying down).
Ask for my Telegram or SnapChat.
Couples
I play with both Stag/Vixen and Cuckold couples, and both categories fall under the Hotwife kink. The majority of my experience is with Stag/Vixen couples where the husband will either watch, take pics/videos (
never on the first meetup) or video conference in to watch me satisfy his goddess, and vice versa. I do enjoy 3sums with Stag/Vixen couples and understand that male to male contact happens which doesn't bother me.
As for Cuckold couples, I have four years of experience with exclusive, submissive couples I consider dear friends. I look forward to finding one or two more couples who are not only comfortable with this subset of the Hotwife kink, but know how to treat and submit to a man like myself. I enjoy the mental challenge of verbally engaging with the wife and her cuck, whether it's an FLR or not.
Single Ladies
I’m most creative/productive when I have a satisfying sex life. Surprisingly the Hotwife lifestyle has been a fuel for the fire because I meet the most interesting people from various backgrounds, domestic or international. Thus, I'd love to find a woman who's open to join me. For the sake of clarity this would mean she'd be open to sleeping with other men while I watch and/or join in. Typically we'd have a friend or two as regulars, but we'd also attend lifestyle events, house parties and vacations together where we'd enjoy some fun and sexy times together.
Your racial makeup doesn't matter to me as I'm attracted to women of diverse cultures, though I do understand this lifestyle is predominantly Caucasian and I hope you do as well. This is important because I play with Hotwife and Cuckold couples who are white so if you're a woman of color and have an issue with that then I wish you the best at finding what you're looking for. However, if this doesn't bother you please don't hesitate to reach out.
The most important attributes I’m looking for are a sense of humor, intelligence, nurturing kindness and an interest in fitness. These sexy characteristics make me want to give you more of my energy and time.
If you consider yourself a brat, move on. Based on my experience that word is the female equivalent to the male's "jerk". (shrug) Sorry I'm not sorry.
I could be your Dom, but don't think you can top me from the bottom. I'm very perceptive.
I play with women of all ages, and I'm a sucker for sultry eyes, long dark hair, a sweet smile and a great ass.
Family comes first
Currently reading
Kitchen Confidential: Adventures in Culinary Underbelly by Anthony Bourdain &
Kink: Stories by R.O. Kwon
I love the
Bulls,
White Sox,
Blackhawks... and I’m a
begrudging Bears fan.
I prefer
over
, 🏋 over
and Marvel 🕷 over DC
.
Media Producer
Lifestyle podcast enthusiasts (
bed hoppers - swinging in the UK,
Ofacez,
Sexualchemy,
MixxedNutzz,
Black&Kinky,
WGAT)
Dog lover
BBQ Grill King
Traveler
Podcast Interviews
Unbelieva-BULL chat with Ashely del Toro
bed hoppers - swinging in the UK Podcast
How To Summer Bang
Room77 Podcast
Ashley del Toro Enters the Ozone!
Ofacez Podcast
Dirty Girls Corner - Lifestyle Politics & Race Play w/ Ashley del Toro
Ofacez Podcast
UK Blog Posts
Secret Vixen's Confessions of a Hotwife: 19 A Big Surprise
Secret Vixen's Confessions of a Hotwife: 19.5 A Big Surprise (Vol. 2)
DOPE-NESS
"How do you explain what it feels like to get on the stage and make poetry that you know sinks into the hearts and souls of people who are unable to express it? Did you know that the human voice is the only pure instrument? That it has notes no other instrument has? It’s like being between the keys of a piano." ~
Nina Simone
"The beauty in being blessed with talent is rising above doubters to create a beautiful moment." ~
Kobe Bryant
"Film is incredibly democratic and accessible, it’s probably the best option if you actually want to change the world, not just re-decorate it." ~
Bansky
"My intellect prevails from a hanging cross with nails. I reinforce the frail, with lyrics that's real. Word to Christ, a disciple of streets, trifle on beats. I decipher prophecies through a mic and say peace." ~
Nas
“To be born free is to be born in debt. To live in freedom without fighting slavery is to profiteer” ~
Orsen Welles