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New Member, Female, from St. Louis, MO, United States
Looking for a big strong bbc in St. Louis Jun 9, 2016
- bareshare was last seen:
- Jun 9, 2016
- St. Louis, MO, United States
- Sexual Orientation:
- Caucasian (white)
- Body Type:
- 5'4" (163cm)
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Here is some info on us, our experience, and what we're seeking:
- Looking for:
- 1-on-1 sex
- Dominance & Submission
We are a 48(him) and 45(her) year old couple, who have been together since we were literally kids (17/15).
She is 5'4", big up top and bottom, short hair, and recently had her nipples pierced. She loves oral, anal, and DP. She will come repetitively during sex, and occasionally will squirt. She finds tall guys, intelligence, and self-assured assertiveness, dominant without being overly cocky, attractive. He is straight, 6', 219, shaved head, trimmed mustache and goatee. He is naturally a dominant leader at home and in his career, but is more than willing to hand over the reins to someone else for her pleasure and advancement. He may not be a traditional "cuck" but very much enjoys sharing Her, and watching her expand her horizons.
For about the last 7 years, we've begun exploring a bit more outside our relationship, adding infrequent excitement to our sex lives.
We've tried FMF and MFM, and MFMF, but haven't been with anyone else since July 2013... we've been busy with careers and family, and have just been keeping an eye open for the perfect guy to help fulfill some fantasies. We found we both seem to get the most pleasure out of MFM, as she likes the attention (and penetration) of two guys, while he enjoys seeing her enjoying herself and pushing her limits.
She is naturally submissive, and likes a guy who takes charge... she'll try just about anything as long as it doesn't involve humiliation(too much), potty play, or real pain. Spankings (light to moderate is great, maybe more) of her ass and pussy, gentle-ish hair pulling (controlling hair pulling, not painful hair pulling), etc, are things which which She does like. She also enjoys light bondage, and she wants to explore more of this with someone. The more you push her, the more she'll do for you.
She has never had unprotected sex with anyone but her husband, and this is one of our biggest fantasies... for her to be able to take a lover bareback and feel him cum inside her, claiming her. She works in healthcare, however, so is very health conscious and it would take a Very recent full panel STD test for her to take that step. We'd be willing to pay for this for the right guy. We were both tested a month ago, as we were talking with a gentleman - but it hasn't worked out.
She has always been submissive, and really formally so with her husband for more than 10 years, but she has shown an interest in "serving" another dominant guy who could help her push her limits in a way that her husband can't - because she has to carry on a regular vanilla marriage when not "playing". In other words, with another guy in control, she would feel more able to "let go" and act more the slut. When We started getting a little adventurous together, she performed a series of tasks which pushed her (limits), until she earned His collar.... this is something that she would like to do with the right guy IF you're into that.
She REALLY likes being/staying engaged between "dates". Texting her with instructions, or to approve what she wears to work, or to tell her to go to the ladies' room at lunch to masturbate and send you a photo, tell her to take her buttplug to work in her purse until you call with directions, etc... all build control and her excitement. Husband is more than happy to share ideas, but if you're creative you can use your imagination.
Another fantasy/goal is to be able to see/date/fuck that guy without her husband being present. Right now she wants him nearby, either sharing her, or in the room, or within earshot - so that she feels safe. She also enjoys being shared with her husband and another guy. But with the right guy, we'd both like to see her be able to go out on a date, etc, one on one, after building some trust. Her obvious concerns relative to that are 1)Whether she'll be hurt, 2)Whether her Dom will abide by any then-current restrictions such as bareback, having others involved with her, etc, and 3) Violation our requirement of discretion at all times. If we can agree on those things up front, we have a lot of room to grow together.
She is self conscious about her weight. In February, she had gotten the heaviest she's ever been in her life, and started dieting, going to the gym daily, and working with a trainer. Since then, she has lost 28lbs, replaced a lot of fat with muscle, and continues to make great strides... feeling sexy again. Still big on top and bottom where it counts
If this is something you're interested in, and you're attracted to a woman with a little meat on her bones, please be prepared to let us know:
1) Wherebouts you're located (we live in NW Jefferson County and both work near Westport... ideally we'd like to find somebody that isn't too far away).
2) If you're in any relationship (Married, serious GF, etc)
3) Whether you smoke
4) Whether you have any experience in a relationship like we're looking for.
5) Whether you are even looking for or willing to consider some kind of "exclusive" relationship like we're seeking.
6) Maybe some idea of what your schedule is like. We both have 7-4 M-F jobs with some flexibility.
After addressing the above, and gauging your responses, we'll be happy to share a multitude of pictures if you're interested in chatting further, or getting together at your convenience. We don't share x-rated pics that show our faces, but enough that you can tell it is her/us. We also have Kik to communicate/text via phone during busy schedules.