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This. The jealousy and angst are a huge part of the cocktail. I get super turned on at her level of raw arousal and sexuality and it conflicts with my jealous feelings. The pain plus pleasure mix emotionally is what I love. Look up the concept of “compersion”. You can get pure joy out of her...

Depends on the woman. In our experience and the one we hear commonly from others, is the wife becomes increasingly more confident in all other areas of life. Mine got better at speaking her mind, making her needs known and no longer felt the need to be a people pleaser as a default. Also in...

We met a guy on CL very early on in our dating while we were in the hot and heavy kinky phase of a new not so serious relationship. We were lucky that was a good experience. Had a lot more misses to follow and swore off meeting off the internet with rare exceptions. By far the better way is...

Not to be terribly shallow, but how do you and the bull compare in terms of career and income? Sex is only small part of relationships overall. Females usually value security and support (not all). Your best bet is probably investing as much time and energy into your career and yourself as a...

It seems like there’s a lot when you read message boards but non monogamy which includes poly/swingers/hotwives is by far the minority among relationships and black-only/QOS is a niche of a niche within that. Once you get plugged in IRL, you realize it’s a small community. If you get a good or...

The deep kissing and genuine intimacy does it for me more than anything else. We were open and swingers before cuckolding so the casual sex while fun, doesn’t push any buttons. The idea that she’s opening herself up to the Bull and passionate for him activates all the cuck angst.

We started that but honestly found a lot of the swingers scene annoying. Trying to match 4 people is a lot of work. We found we liked her having fun on the nights they let single guys into the local swingers club and from there went stag/vixen. Black only organically followed.

I’ve been toying with heading in that direction. Wife and I have great sex but when I’m in chastity for a period of time, my senses get so heightened and I’m so constantly on edge and turned on that I find myself more and more wanting to stay in that state…

We had that same feeling the first day but then someone explained to us that all the single men receive a briefing on expected educate. A big part of making the ladies feel comfortable is not swarming or being pushy. Wife soon found if she made eye contact and said hi, they would open right up...

We’ll be there, our 2nd

I’m not small and I’m skilled in the bedroom. We had done swinging and stag/vixen play for years before cuckolding. She could always take it or leave because she was satisfied at home. When started cuckolding and she started focusing on Black men, it was still much the same thing. Eventually...

We’re definitely in the lifestyle category. Wife definitely not a fan of one off’s and prefers more of a dating dynamic with her Bulls. Ultimately she’d like to find that right one and allow herself to fall for him. I think we’re in the minority in that though bc most other couples and bulls we...

Nope. Charlotte sometimes.

Hey cuck couple in Asheville here. Wife looking for a local boyfriend type. Brand new to this site but are verified on SDC.

Hi! Asheville cuck couple here. Wife is looking for a steady local lover that can hopefully develop into a boyfriend of sorts.