wanabe ... the fact that you are able to talk openly to her about your desire without her bopping you over the head with a tea kettle is actually encouraging. It means the 2 of you can discuss anything together. I would suggest you try accomplishing your plan in small steps. Also, see if you can get her into a discussion about her deepest fantasies ... let's evaluate what U have to work with here. The last thing you want to do is seem pushy. Possibly buy her one of those nice, large, lifelike cocks from the adult stores and do some role play. Reassure her that watching her take another man's (notice I don't mention color) cock. I think eventually you will bring her around "to the dark side" as you desire.