Good morning,
Women get angry at their husbands/ boyfriends for various reasons, most of the time justified.
To be angry enough to cheat on him, implies to me that he has acted very inappropriately in regards to other females.
outright cheating, texting another female, flirting etc....all crossing the line.
Is it ever ok? Society says it isn't. That you have to suffer the embarrassment, humiliation, forgive it, go to counseling, work it out etc.
Does a woman every fully trust again? Does she recover from the feelings of possibly being replaced? overlooked, not paid attention to properly?
Women cheat for emotional reasons mostly, getting the attention, confidence boosting, feeling of being desired back....all things they do not get at home so.....
can you live with it? that depends on how you look at who is at fault for your cheating...the husbands, or yours. his failings, his violations of committment, his lack of paying attention to you, pampering you, building you up etc, or your need for those things as a woman.
just food for thought from how I look at it.