Being proactive and reactive

I get asked a lot why don't I just get over the cuck thing. From women I talk to, wannabe cucks, and husbands seeking to become cucks. It's hard to quantify 16 years of having a service-based mindset. And I'm not talking about my dick. When you are expected to behave in a passive manner on a frequent basis your brain starts to be reactive to everything in your life.

You start thinking that you are invisible until a woman tells you that you are seen. Men are expected to be proactive with their love life. You have to do the approach, ask for the contact info, keep the conversation fun/flirting, plan the first/second/third date, escalate physically and of course be able to provide a level of sexual satisfaction in the bedroom.

But as you perform the cuck role enough or even watch the BBC porn/cuckolding porn long enough you start to stop believing that you should be proactive with your sex life.

I have changed very much from just playing with couples at 18 to moving for my first relationship at 22. Because one of them just play. Which happened once a month or every other 3 months. Well, the other with a partner happened once or twice a week. To the point when you just can't see yourself using your

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