When I told my then GF, about some swinging experience in a previous relationship, she was taken aback, and declared “don’t ever expect me to do anything like that” in truth the idea had not entered my head, and told her so. Roll on 18 mths later we were married, everything going good for us, loving life as a happily married couple. Sex was still at every opportunity, and we explored each others bodies and minds, using toys and porn, she had been in an abusive relationship for 14 yrs before meeting me, not so much physically abusive, more mentally, and her needs took second place to his addiction, so she had become versed in using toys for satisfaction. One evening, porn on the tv in bedroom, playing with h plug in and me lying next to her, she asked me what had gone on in the aforementioned swinging experience, ii told her the truth, my then GF, and a good friend and his GF, she said she wouldn’t be able too watch me with another woman cos she would be too jealous, I said I could understand that, and left it there. The next weeks she kept asking me more details, and in the end I asked if she wanted to try it but she was adamant about being to jealous, so when I said to her, if she wanted to experience two men pleasuring her, I was ok with it, she questioned my motives asking if I was secretly bi, and how could I really love her if I could let another man fuck her? I told her I wasn’t bi, and I didn’t want sex with anybody but her, and that her having sex with another man in my presence, sharing moments like that together was a signal to me that our trust in each was exceptional, and that being able to be open with one another was strengthening. I was taken aback when she said she wanted to try it, but only once, I agreed a little to quick, then she added “ but only with a blackman” my head suddenly filled with images, and my cock hardened. We live in a rural market town in uk, and not many non white’s around here, so queried her. She said it was because she had not even kissed a non white fella and I was curious. I felt embarrassed cos it turned me on more than I wanted to admit, and hoped she didn’t clock on.
Anyway once we had decided to give it a go, we met a black bull in our local city, nerves and too much ******* spoiled the main event but when we spoke to each other honestly on the way home, we both agreed that it had been a bit of a roller coaster ride of emotions, and wanted to give it another go. She said she was extremely nervous because she didn’t want any negative affects on our relationship, and once we had done something, we couldn’t take it back. I encouraged her to relax fully and enjoy herself to the full, I was turned on by watching her, and being part of the moment even if not directly involved. The next three months we were like two ******* in a candy shop, every opportunity we had of meeting a bbc bull we took, 4 in the first month, 6 the following month, the third month we had our first club experience, it catered for couples looking for bbc bulls, we got chatting to one bull who introduced us to some mild bondage and domination, and by the time we left, she had her first DP, DV,gangbang, anal and squirting orgasms (the first time I had witnessed that in real life), with 4 bbc, and went back there the next 3 weekends. Each time pushing boundaries further,
So from meek to freak within 3 months for us
